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Crossing the Fine Line - Friendship vs. Partnership
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look at how the friendship/partnership boundary becomes blurred in creating a
conflict of interest in a session.
partnership refers to an association between you and your client in which each
understands the role and tasks of the other. The therapeutic partnership is based
on an understanding and acceptance of the differences of the roles and tasks of
your client and you. However,
the fine line of a therapeutic conflict-of-interest gets crossed when this partnership
blurs into a friendship.
♦ Case Study: Sue and Brenda
Here is an experience one of my colleagues, Sue,
had that shows how easily this can occur. Sue was co-leading a Monday Support
Group for women that met one evening a week. The other co-leader, Brenda, was
in private practice and met clients at her home-office. After one of the regular
women's group meetings at Brenda's home-office, Sue returned an hour after the
meeting had adjourned to pick up her forgotten coat.
Sue was surprised to find
Brenda's town house filled with 10 to 15 women, most of which had attended the
earlier group. Two members of the group were topless and giving each other massages.
Apparently Brenda's daughter was a lesbian, and her daughter's friends included
lesbian members of the Monday Support Group. Brenda had decided to host a get-together
for her daughter and her daughter's friends.
Wow, talk about a blur in boundaries
between professional relationships and friendships! After the next group meeting
Sue mentioned her concerns regarding dual relationships and the effect upon the
therapy relationship, as well as how Brenda was leaving herself open for possible
claims of sexual abuse or harrassment. She clearly was so enmeshed in the dual
roles between therapist and being a friend and mother to her daughter, Brenda
saw no reason to change. Sue felt uncomfortable with her involvement with the
group and discontinued co-leadership.
♦ Friendship vs. Partnership
you find yourself meeting your own personal needs for friendship in relationships
with clients, do you need to reconsider how to restore a therapeutic boundary
to eliminate this conflict of interest in the relationship in order to facilitate
your decision regarding the ethics of a possible friendship with a client? If
you have friendship versus therapeutic relationship conflicts, ask yourself, "What
is the context of my situation? What are my client's goals? Is there a potential
In my opinion, the context of the party that included clients
giving partially nude massages definitely violated an ethic boundary. And since
some of the clients were struggling with relationship goals, I feel this personal
situation might cause certain clients to be less open in the group, thus hindering
their possible growth. Lastly, the potential harm could come in many forms, including
and not limited to a violation of the sexual abuse boundary.
A therapeutic partnership is based on understanding and acceptance
of the differences in roles and tasks between therapist and client. Thus, the
partnership is not to be confused with what? To select and enter your answer go