Parent Training and Counseling
Parent training can be effective in reducing activity level, conflict, and
anger intensity and in increasing on task behavior and compliance of
children with ADHD (Fiore, Becker, & Nero). Parent training is the second
most widely used treatment (next to medication) for ADHD. It has long been
recognized that increased parental competence has a positive effect on the
behavior of children (Goldstein & Goldstein; Hunt & Cohen). Parent
training may be particularly responsive to the specific needs of children
with ADHD and their parents during the preschool period, when noncompliance
is acute and parental stress often is at a peak (Pisterman et al). It is
my experience that parent training and counseling can generally be delivered
together and completed in an 8- to 12-session cognitive-behavioral treatment
program that is used either with individual families or with several families
in a group therapy format (Anastopoulos & Barkley). Shaywitz and Shaywitz
believe that the main therapeutic objective for children and adolescents
with ADHD and their parents is to learn methods or techniques of coping and
compensating for this ongoing learning and behavioral disability. Generally,
parent training and counseling, based on the Anastopoulos and Barkley model,
is delivered during the course of 12 or fewer sessions in either an individual
or multifamily format. Because no evidence exists for one intervention or
approach being superior to the other (Anastopoulos & Barkley), the mental
health therapist should carefully consider and probably comply with the parents’ preference.
Anastopoulos and Barkley believe that clinicians should not have a specific
or inflexible number of parent training or counseling sessions. Rather, parents
should be guided by the mental health therapist through the treatment, taking
as many sessions as necessary to bring about the desired therapeutic change.
The sessions should typically include the following: (a) program
orientation; (b) understanding parent-child relationships
and principles of behavior management; (c) enhancing parental
attending skills; (d) paying positive attention to appropriate
independent play and compliance; (e) establishing a home
token system; (f) using time out to handle noncompliance; (g) extending
time out to other misbehaviors (time out, however, is often less effective
with adolescents); (h) managing children’s behavior
in public places; (i) handling future behavior problems;
and (j) a booster session that may later summarize the content
or refine the procedures.
Mental health therapists should be aware that children with ADHD frequently
demonstrate other difficulties or co-occurring conditions such as aggression,
oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, academic underachievement,
low self-esteem, depression, peer and sibling relationship problems, enuresis,
and encopresis (Anastopoulos & Barkley). Biederman, Newcorn, and Sprich
found that the literature supports considerable comorbidity or co-occurrence
of ADHD with oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, mood disorders,
anxiety disorders, borderline personality disorder, and learning disabilities.
Many children with ADHD have co-occurring language deficits or problems (e.g.,
with covert speech or in carrying on an internal conversation) and find articulation
or verbalizing to be a tenuous function that often is overwhelming (Barkley;
Goldstein & Goldstein; O’Brien). These difficulties or co-occurring
conditions need to be considered carefully in developing and implementing interventions.
In addition, the parents of a child with ADHD can be at a high risk for codependence.
Although caring parents feel the distress of their child with ADHD, excessive
identification with the child’s problems or pain is unhealthy. Parents
who are consumed by caring for the child with ADHD can be attempting to shield
themselves or their families from the realities or problems often connected
with the disorder. Parents may need to receive counseling and training to change
their perspective and make a distinction between the needs of the child with
ADHD and their own. Although ADHD is a pervasive condition that affects the entire
family and must be viewed in such a context, I believe that there are times
when the mental health therapist should depart from the family counseling format.
Difficult issues for the child with ADHD, such as low self-esteem and depression,
may best be handled in individual sessions unless the child feels comfortable
with particular issues in the presence of parents and siblings (Robin).
Focal Points of Intervention
It is my contention from experience as a therapist that effective mental health
counseling with a child who has ADHD should focus, in most cases, on the following:
Understanding ADHD characteristics and problems and the comorbidity or cooccurring
conditions that may accompany the child diagnosed with ADHD. The clinical
reality of the lives of clients with comorbidity is complicated (Clarkin & Kendall). • Changing
the faulty communication patterns that evolved within the family because
of ADHD (e.g., for parents and siblings to stop blaming, punishing, or being
angry with the child who has ADHD for behavior that usually arises from the
disorder). • Establishing realistic--not heightened--behavioral, academic,
and social expectations for the child with ADHD. • Providing the child
with ADHD with consistent parental supervision, setting behavioral boundaries
that are achievable, and using immediate, but fair, consequences for noncompliance
or misbehavior. Kirby and Grimley voiced the concern that ADHD is a self-regulatory
difficulty that requires frequent monitoring by parents and teachers. • Observing
closely at home and with teachers the role and effects of medication on the
child with ADHD. The most common contemporary treatments for ADHD are psychostimulant
medications, which often are a routine component of treatment regimens (Barkley;
Henker, Buhrmester, Hinshaw, Huber, & Laski; Peiham et al.). • Ensuring
that the child with ADHD receives heavy daily doses of positive reinforcement
from parents and siblings for appropriate on-task behavior. • Taking
advantage of or creating opportunities to enhance social functioning for
the child with ADHD. Most children diagnosed with ADHD have extensive and enduring
problems in the social realm (Whalen & Henker). • Involving peers
at some point in treatment as part of the family counseling program.
In developing a treatment plan for the family, it is important to adopt a
multidimensional approach. Goldstein and Goldstein and Satterfield, Satterfield,
and Cantwell advocated the combination of medication, parent counseling and
training in child management, parent education, cognitive mediational training,
social skills training, academic support, classroom consultation, and individual
counseling for children with ADHD. Also, factors such as socioeconomic status
and family support can positively or negatively influence the outcome of ADHD
and need to be considered.
There are no long-term findings or evidence that one counseling strategy or
approach is singularly effective in treating children with ADHD. These children
usually present a serious range of problems at home and at school and in the
community. At present, it seems that a multidimensional or multifaceted treatment
model offering a combination of interventions provides effective management
of the wide range of problems experienced by children with ADHD (Goldstein & Goldstein).
Finally, in the context of family counseling, it is important for the entire
family to obtain help in coping with the problems that result from having a
family member with ADHD (Nussbaum & Bigler).The degree to which the family
finds successful modes or interventions to cope with the symptoms and problems
associated with the disorder will ultimately determine the prognosis for the
family. I believe that each child or adolescent with an attention deficit disorder
(ADHD) is unique and typically exhibits some combination of symptoms; they can
occur with varying degrees of intensity (at school or in the family) depending
upon the biological and environmental forces that can be operating. Mental
health therapists should be alert to the predominant symptom pattern that is
common to the diagnosis for the different subtypes of ADHD (e.g., inattentive
type, hyperactive-impulse type, combined type) and consider matching interventions
or treatment with the principal behavioral, social, and emotional symptoms.
Other interventions, medication, and educational specialists need to be evaluated
by the parents and professionals in combination with the recommended interventions.
Interventions and their effects have the potential to overlap and are intended
to be ongoing or long-term so as to enable optimum outcome.
Conclusion
The prognosis is diminished for children with untreated ADHD and their families
(Kirby & Grimley). Counseling that involves the entire family has the
potential to motivate children with ADHD, improve their self-esteem and self-concept,
and help them improve social skills or functioning. The following could be
benchmarks or signposts that reflect the effectiveness of family counseling
for a child who has ADHD: (a) improved parent and sibling
communication patterns and functioning (e.g., familial harmony), (b) improved
academic performance, (c) improved peer relationships, (d) increased
compliance with on-task behavior, and (e) decreased moodiness
or depression. It is my contention that the unity of the entire family in
becoming clinical allies in an ongoing multidimensional treatment plan offers
the greatest chance of success in treating the child with ADHD. Accepting
and nurturing the family member with ADHD from childhood, to adolescence,
to adult life, despite multiple frustrations, may prove to be the best form
of assistance or therapy.
- Erk, Robert R; Multidimensional treatment
of attention deficit disorder: A family oriented approach; Journal of
Mental Health Counseling; Jan97, Vol. 19 Issue 1, p3
Personal
Reflection Exercise #8
The preceding section contained information
about interventions for the families of children with ADHD. Write
three case study examples regarding how you might use the content of this section
in your practice.
Reviewed 2023
Update
Associations between Family Functioning and Symptoms of
Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD): A Cross-Sectional Study
- Choksomngam, Y., Jiraporncharoen, W., Pinyopornpanish, K., Narkpongphun, A., Ongprasert, K., & Angkurawaranon, C. (2022). Associations between Family Functioning and Symptoms of Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD): A Cross-Sectional Study. Healthcare (Basel, Switzerland), 10(8), 1502. https://doi.org/10.3390/healthcare10081502
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Shahidullah, J. D., Carlson, J. S., Haggerty, D., & Lancaster, B. M. (2018). Integrated care models for ADHD in children and adolescents: A systematic review.Families, Systems, & Health, 36(2), 233–247.
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QUESTION
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